Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Clean Living For Your Skin, Hair and Home



I have been eating clean for about three years now, and in that time it has gotten much, much easier for me to stay on track. When I go off track, I am completely and totally aware of what I am doing, so I made the decision to challenge myself to see if I could revamp some other areas as well; specifically my skin, hair, and home.

The first step I took was to do some research, and I was introduced to two wonderful books. The first book I was introduced to was:
Thanks Tracy at www.thelovevitamin.com for this recommendation. I always had a sneaky suspicion that my face cleanser and body wash, as well as, my face and body lotions could be contributing to my eczema flair ups, but now that I am armed with information on how to read labels and know what I'm looking for, I'm about ninety percent sure that I'm allergic to at least one of these chemicals that I have been using. So, I purged all of my every day products.

The second step was to experiment. I figured if what I was putting inside my body was so good, why not use what I had in the fridge and pantry on my hair and skin? This part was a lot of fun for me. Some of the combinations I used weren't so good, but I will share with you, the ones that worked out really well for me.

For my daily facial cleanser I use a combination of argan and sunflower oils. I put two to three drops of each oil in the palm of my hand and then wash like normal. If my skin is really worked up, I use cold pressed organic olive oil and a small bit of calamine.

For a moisturizer I use about six drops of argan oil.

I also enjoy doing masks and I discovered that honey, avocado, and blueberries all make wonderful calming and moisturizing masks, that you can make right at home, in your blender.

For my hair I use nut oil. Walnut oil is my favorite and thanks to this book, I wash my hair backwards. This means I put a small amount of oil into the palm of my hands (a dime size is fine) and work it into my wet hair. Then I use coconut oil as my conditioner. It's from the same container that I use for cooking from Tropical Traditions. The final step is to shampoo, and I've been using a combination of aloe and tea tree oils. After all of this is on my head for about five to ten minutes, I rinse it all out, and my hair is much more manageable, without all the harsh chemicals. Oh yeah and in between washes, I use just a little bit of cornstarch or coconut flour, as a dry shampoo.

As for my body, I have been using aloe to wash, and I use argan oil for a moisturizer. I have been feeling lighter and less sluggish since using these products. Plus, I think that since I use so little at a time, they will last longer, and save me money. 

Best of all you can buy all these ingredients at Whole Foods as you do your regular grocery shopping, which totally saves time.

P.S. If you feel the need to do a scrub, once a week is fine, and I recommend Sugar In The Raw mixed with a bit of fresh squeezed peach juice. Just go wild in the produce aisle and let me know if you discover something I haven't thought of yet. 

The second book that made me change my outlook on cleaning products used in the home was:

From reading this book I now use things like vinegar, castille soap, baking soda, and other things that I already have in my home as cleaning products. This book has excellent recipes, so I just followed them, but if I come up with something awesome on my own, you'll be the first to know. I love the fact that I don't need to use harsh chemicals to make my home feel clean and sustainable.

I am so glad I read these two books as they really changed my outlook on the everyday products that I use, and I have been telling everyone about my findings. Even though some people would call it "hippy-dippy" I feel like I can breathe easier in my home and skin, while not polluting our Earth more than it already is, and that fact alone makes me feel wonderful.

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Inquiry Into 2014


This morning I woke up feeling full of creative energy, joy, and happiness bursting at the seams. I feel as if I am closer to being my true authentic self this year, than I have felt in a really long time, which makes me feel really fantastic. I have been working (in my personal journal) on answering  '22 Questions that long to be asked' from Shiloh Sophia's most recent email, and it's been an exciting eye-opening experience, that I would like to share with you.

FROM SHILOH SOPHIA'S EMAIL:

At the beginning of every year I become obsessed with finding the language for who, what, where, why, when and what for.

One of the ways I work with the changing energies of my desires for what I want to create in the new year has to do with a very wonderful word - INQUIRY. Inside of it is everything that could be, but isn't yet or isn't clear yet...but more importantly: I get to choose. And the way that I choose is to INQUIRE into myself and consult with my life plan.

I am sharing with you the 22 questions I ask myself, not just at the beginning of the year, but on a regular basis. Often I am driven to this inquiry ritual for "moving on" through restlessness.

Yes I find it delicious, this work of invention is so enlivening to the soul. If your soul is parched, feed it some nourishment through inquiry.

SHILOH SOPHIA'S 22 QUESTIONS FOR MOVING ON AND BREAKING THROUGH:

  1. What is it I am committed to starting?
  2. What is it I am committed to finishing?
  3. Who is it I am excited about being?
  4. Who is it in me I am excited about letting go?
  5. Where is it I will spend my time?
  6. Where is it I will spend less of my time?
  7. Who will I reach out to and connect with?
  8. Who will I surrender and let go?
  9. What is it I feel really good about?
  10. What is it I need to forgive myself for?
  11. What abundance am I going to bring forth?
  12. What excess am I going to release?
  13. How will I shine my light in the world?
  14. How will I stop hiding my light?
  15. How will I strengthen my relationship with Spirit?
  16. What excuses will I no longer use?
  17. What is it that my soul longs to express?
  18. What is no longer serving my soul?
  19. How will I care for my body?
  20. How will I no longer treat myself?
  21. What was my theme for 2013? Stepping onto the path for an artistic journey, healing, and being careful what I wish for because it just might be taken literally and come true in unexpected ways.
  22. What will be your theme for 2014? Opening up the artistic doors to let abundance flow through every single day and work on micro-movements, so I can get more done.


"Throwing away ideas too soon is like opening a package of flower seeds
and then throwing them away because they're not pretty." - 
written in Creativity Fringes, ed. Karl H. Mettke

Saturday, January 4, 2014

My 2014 Mantra


Happy 2014 everyone! This year I've decided to not make any resolutions (since the word in and of itself is limiting and seems to me to be more of an ending then a beginning.) Instead, I've decided to focus on goals, and my main goal is written above. I decided to underline 'dance', since it was something I didn't get to do enough of last year. It's also a reminder to not take myself too seriously and have fun. I can't wait to try Zumba, make my business official, and put it out there without fear. Those are my three main goals for this year. I'm also looking forward to getting back to volunteering at Open Books, as well as, conquring my 2014 Big Book Challenge. You can see more about that here: http://kpaone92.booklikes.com/post/741174/my-big-book-challenge-for-2014.

I think 2014 is going to be an awesome year for all! Go with the flow and don't forget to dance as if no one is watching. That's what I'm planning to do.





Saturday, December 28, 2013

The Extraordinary Project By Suzanne Clores

On a whim, I was searching Kickstarter today and came across this project, and it really caught my attention. So, I just wanted to share it with you, in case you're interested.

In a nut shell, this project is a web-based story collection of our most unusual human experiences - from strange coincidences, to "knowing" what is about to happen before it does, to hearing messages from the deceased - all of it. Suzanne's goal is to collect 100,000 true stories and perhaps change the conversation around the ways in which we communicate with ourselves and each other.

I pledged $10, and the reward is: a dollar bill thank you, and a personal thank you phone call to chat about your thoughts on the extraordinary. Pretty cool. This project is open for 22 more days and I really hope it gets the funding it deserves. Thank you for your consideration and I hope you all had a wonderfully relaxing, fun filled Christmas!

Friday, December 20, 2013

2013 Annual Review: Lessons Learned


In this post: a few thoughts on the lessons I've learned this year.


On struggling.

I knew going into independent work was going to be a ginormous transition. I'm responsible for everything, and to be perfectly honest, it ended up being a lot harder than I thought it was going to be. I have a new found respect for business owners who are successful. I know I'm my own worst critic and that I hold myself up to much higher standards than anyone else would. This is a double edged sword. On one hand, I like setting the bar high and climbing to success. It feels really good. I like looking inside, seeing my failures, and learning valuable lessons from them. On the other hand, the struggle with perfectionism is paralyzing me from putting things out there, because it's not up to my standards. So, I've come to the conclusion that the pursuit of perfectionism is futile. Nothing will ever be perfect, but that shouldn't stop me from putting it out there. When my pesky perfectionist pops up, I know how to reassign her to her "perfect" task, so that I can get her out of my head and get some actual work done.

Lesson: It's time to get back to work in 2014 and put it out there, without fear!


On healing.

There's a lot of life that is outside of our personal control. I learned this lesson again this year when I was hit by a car. However, I used the time to heal both my body and soul in order to make me stronger and more whole as a person. I learned how to harness the flow in everyday activities, I put myself on a proper writing diet, and I'm starting weight bearing exercises at physical therapy. I have also come to the conclusion that this accident was a blessing in disguise, in order to make me more resilient in 2014. I will be like a phoenix rising from the ashes of this year.


Lesson: I want to embrace the messy middle and live life to the fullest every single day in 2014.


On money.

It's a necessity, but it's not everything. I'm trying to re-arrange my life so that I have enough to pay the bills, and some left over so that the cash can flow;  instead of looking at numbers and seeing them go up or down in my accounts. I also like having the freedom of setting my own schedule, so that I can continue to grow as a person, in order to grow my business. I have faith that my hard work will pay off, and I realize that getting to this point will require some sacrifices, monetarily or otherwise, but I am willing to make it happen.

Lesson: You can't have a business without money, but it's important not to get consumed by the numbers, as it stunts personal growth.


On giving back and paying it forward.

I feel it's important to do both and not necessarily with money. These past three months I have missed volunteering at Open Books literacy programs, helping people find the perfect book in the Open Books' Book Store, as well as, donating my time during the holidays to the local soup kitchens and animal shelters. I did give money to Red Cross this year, so that they could help the people who lost their homes in downstate Illinois because of the tornado, but I would of rather of donated my time and reached out to those who needed the help more.

Lesson: I can't wait to make a difference in other people's lives in 2014.


All in all, I've learned a lot of valuable lessons about myself, how I work, my business, and helping others in order to create a better future for all. What are some of the lessons you've learned this year?



Friday, December 13, 2013

2013: A Year In Review



I wanted to take a moment from the hustle and bustle of the holidays, to reflect on this past year. I'm going to split this review up into four different sections. The GREEN section will be what was in my control that went well this year. The RED section will be what was in my control that didn't go well this year. The GRAY section will be for the things that were totally out of my control, and then finally, the BLUE section will be looking forward to 2014 and setting new goals to focus on throughout this next year.

So let's get started...

WHAT WENT WELL THIS YEAR

  • I started this blog.
  • I finished my children's book.
  • I read Dan Poynter's book on self-publishing that gave me a bunch of great ideas on what to do and what not to do with my book. 
  • I researched how to set up a sole proprietership in Illinois.
  • I became a freelance nanny and personal assistant to some really awesome families.
  • I also picked up a part time job to make ends meet better.
  • I started my own personal writing diet, which has made me happier.
  • I officially stepped onto the artistic path in order to cultivate my creativity, and some very interesting people have started to pop up in my life, in really new and exciting ways.
  • I have grown authentically as a person.

WHAT DIDN'T GO WELL THIS YEAR

  • I wasn't able to finish the whole process of getting my children's book out there, finalizing my business, and marketing my book in unique ways.
  • I didn't finish my demo reel for voice overs.
  • I wasn't able to pay off all my credit debt.
  • I felt confused, anxious, and sad throughout different times this year.
  • Things took a lot longer than I expected. At times it was hard for me to stay focused on the big picture and not get lost in the day to day.


WHAT WAS OUT OF MY CONTROL THIS YEAR

  • The death of my boyfriend's Uncle, whom I've gotten to know and like, over the many years we've dated.
  • Getting hit by a car and all the drama and healing that has come with it.

LOOKING FORWARD TO 2014

  • Make my business official.
  • Put my book out there in unique ways.
  • Become the strongest person I can be both physically and mentally.
  • Explore more of my messy middle to see if there's a deeper level of vulnerability and giving I can express.
  • Start a new writing project, and not be afraid to ask for help from other like minded individuals in order to move it forward better.
  • Giving back to the community by volunteering my time.

Saturday, November 30, 2013

Small Business Saturday

Whether it's the corner café with the delicious dark roast or the record store down the street that sells vintage vinyl, we all have our favorite small businesses.

Let's make this the biggest Small Business Saturday yet. Here's what you can do to take part:

GO OUT AND SHOP: Make sure to support the local businesses you love on Nov 30.

SHARE YOUR SUPPORT: Post about Small Business Saturday on social networks to get friends and family involved.

JOIN IN: Visit ShopSmall.com to get more ideas on what you can do for the big day.

Thank you in advance for your support. Together, we can make Small Business Saturday a huge day for all local businesses.